affirmative consent

Counterfeit Kink Communities: Surprise, It's All A Power Trip

Counterfeit Kink Communities: Surprise, It's All A Power Trip

The safety of Kinksters is at risk because we fail to be more than a collective of people with similar interests and goals. We fail to hold each other accountable, we fail in supporting each other, and in creating an environment where people feel safe enough to be authentic. 

Guess where those legislators in Michigan probably got their sex education

Guess where those legislators in Michigan probably got their sex education

We made these legislators. Our schools educated them about sex, sex shame, and sexism. We taught them the culture they are trying to uphold. 

That Time My Lover Drove Across The Country And Met My Boyfriend

That Time My Lover Drove Across The Country And Met My Boyfriend

I have consented to be wrecked. “We will shatter,” I said. Now pieces of me at being scattered across the country. I am bruised blue with heartache. But I’m proud of my marks. They're evidence of my strength. This love is beautiful, even shattered to pieces.  

Yes. I Play Dangerously. I Let Him Take My Breath Away

Yes. I play dangerously. We’re drifting towards an event horizon instead of orbiting a sun eternally. We will shatter. The benefits of sexual freedom are bittersweet sometimes. When love is dynamic, the changes can take time. It hurts to adjust.

Deflating the Controversy over Trigger Warning Arm Floaties - Gentleperverts' Social Club Podcast Interview

Deflating the Controversy over Trigger Warning Arm Floaties - Gentleperverts' Social Club Podcast Interview

I sheathed my sharp tongue long enough to discuss the pros and cons of trigger warnings and their effect on how we communicate with each other on the Gentleperverts' Social Club Podcast with Dylan Thomas and Crista Ann.