As I learned to see my submission as strength, to see value in my service, I found myself raising the bar for the Dominant people in my life. I have happy, loving relationships with people I will not submit to. Living authentically, I can love many, but submit to few.
Tokyo’s fetish for fetishes is hardly a secret. The weird, the taboo, the edges of erotic play can all be found in the hundreds of private fetish clubs in the densely-packed metropolis. The birthplace of manga and tentacle porn, Tokyo’s conservatism is a thin canopy that shades a jungle of forbidden desires, erotic art, and kink culture.
We've all been around the Brock before. And we need to talk about the nice guy who doesn't understand why he's a rapist.
Respected Dallas Rope Artist Talks about Leadership in Kink Communities - Sean Grey Interview (AUDIO)
Sean Grey has been leading through dedicated service to his community for over a decade. I am so grateful that he gave his time to tell me his thoughts on leadership as a service, what makes someone a good leader, and how to keep our communities safe.
Sexologist Dr. Justine Shuey discusses some common misconceptions about BDSM, where those misconceptions come from, and what we can do about them.
Call me an idealist, but I believe it is actually possible to create the authentic communities that we really need.
The safety of Kinksters is at risk because we fail to be more than a collective of people with similar interests and goals. We fail to hold each other accountable, we fail in supporting each other, and in creating an environment where people feel safe enough to be authentic.
Wax play can be therapeutic, even when its taken a step beyond candles.
We made these legislators. Our schools educated them about sex, sex shame, and sexism. We taught them the culture they are trying to uphold.
Fetlife may have spoiled me on individualized identity options on social media profiles. Okcupid is on the right track, but I won’t be happy until I can list my whole polycule and all my metamours. I want more metamour love on okcupid.
Yes. I play dangerously. We’re drifting towards an event horizon instead of orbiting a sun eternally. We will shatter. The benefits of sexual freedom are bittersweet sometimes. When love is dynamic, the changes can take time. It hurts to adjust.
Deflating the Controversy over Trigger Warning Arm Floaties - Gentleperverts' Social Club Podcast Interview
I sheathed my sharp tongue long enough to discuss the pros and cons of trigger warnings and their effect on how we communicate with each other on the Gentleperverts' Social Club Podcast with Dylan Thomas and Crista Ann.
She had a few extra hours with the soft leather buckled and locked around her neck. She was happy. He was still sleeping. She slipped out of bed lightly and walked, still nude, to the kitchen to start coffee.
I want to yank empathetic tears from your eyes and watch them roll down your cheek and wet the page so that my words bleed. A little breath play. A little pain play. A little mindfuck. I want you to get to the last word and beg me to hurt you again like the true masochist I know you are.
Ronda has a hard-working pussy. Not like you lazy, non-lube producing assholes. That’s ok Ronda Rousey. That leaves more Foria cannabis lube for the rest of us.
I hate to be the one to break it to you, love. There’s going to be pain in your life. There are going to be moments when you feel like the waters have drifted up over your nose, and you have to stretch to get a breath. It’s going to happen. Consider yourself warned.
You always learn the most when you're interacting with the people between the workshops at sex education conventions like CatalystCon. Don't get me wrong, the workshops are worthy of the price of entrance. But its the intimate moments when all that juicy bits of sexual goodness really hit home.
Inside Iran's Seditious Sex Scene: It’s Friday. In Tehran, young urbanites are gearing up for the weekend. In the city’s affluent neighborhoods, friends and family of the elite gather behind the relative privacy of four walls to socialize, drink, and let their hair down.
My tumblr account is definitely NSFW at this point.